I was 16 when I first thought about making a drastic change to my hair colour. Rihanna had just released Love The Way You Lie, and not only did I fall in love with the song, I also fell in love with her bright red pixie crop. I remember starting my lunchbreak at my Saturday job with a phonecall to my mum. "I want to die my hair red," I said. I expected (for some reason) her to tell me that I was old enough to make my own decisions, but instead she flat-out refused to let me do anything permanent to my hair.
I was fuming, but I dropped it. And I'm glad I did. To lift my almost-black hair to white-blonde in order to dye it red would have completely destroyed it (plex formulas like Olaplex, which allow you to lift your hair colour without causing as much damage, didn't exist at the time). I probably would've had to have cut all my hair off before long.
So I waited a year, saying to myself that, if I still wanted the same look in a year's time, I would go for it. Luckily, the urge faded, and my first interaction with hair colouring was a lot more subtle...
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2012: Brown to blonde ombre |
I started off with a brown-to-blonde ombre. I guess this was around the time that ombres started to become really trendy (and the trend has never really faded).
Suffolk-based hairstylist Jo Read did my ombre, and I really loved how it looked. It was subtle in comparison to the Rihanna-red look, but still 'different' enough to satisfy my need for change.
Curling my hair was my favourite way to style this look. I loved how the blonde caught the light in each curl.
However, with the rise in colourful hairstyles, it wasn't long before I was desperate for another transformation. I wanted pastel hair so badly after seeing it on some of my favourite influencers, such as Amy Valentine and In The Frow. I went back to Jo and had two pieces of my hair strand tested for pastel hair but, as we suspected, the strands felt like straw after being lifted so many levels. So I decided to work with what I had...
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2015: Box-dyed purple hair |
Again, I absolutely loved how it looked. Even though my hair was already so dark and you could only really see the purple colouring in natural lighting, I felt like my hair looked fun and unique.
However, I became frustrated when I realised that a 'permanent dye' this was not. Most of the colour came out when I had a shower, and my pillowcases had to be thrown away because so much colour transferred from my hair to the fabric when I slept. I had to repeat the dyeing process every few weeks - and bearing in mind how long my hair is, this took around four hours each time (and my bathroom got covered in purple dye in the process).
Eventually, I got tired of dyeing my hair myself, and for a while it returned to a faded purplish-blueish-brown colour.
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2015: green hair |
Unfortunately, because I was studying, interning, and working at the weekends, I didn't have time to correct the colour - so my hair looked like this in my graduation photo 😑
I later found the time to dye my hair back to red with Schwarzkopf Live over Christmas in that year.
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2016: Professionally-dyed red hair |
For one article, I visited Andrew Jose in Fiztrovia, London - a beautiful salon with really friendly staff (and Andrew himself was so lovely). They gave me the 'Haircial' (a nourishing hair and scalp treatment), and corrected my bad home-dye job with a gorgeous, even red colour. I don't think my hair has looked shinier. I was complimented several times for my hair that day on the way home on the train.
I was obsessed with this colour. The dye didn't transfer, and the colour stayed vibrant for a good few months. I highly recommend Andrew Jose if you want a similar treatment or look - they're magicians!
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2016: Blue hair extensions |
Although I love the look and how thick my hair felt with the extensions, this was the first and last time I would ever have extensions installed, as I wasn't keen on how they felt. This wasn't any fault of Vixen & Blush, I just didn't like how the extensions felt, just as I don't like having nail or eyelash extensions, however much I love how they look.
After six weeks, I removed the extensions and was left with brown-blue hair, which I liked until the colour faded.
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2016: Denim hair |
L'Oréal were making a huge deal of this trend, and offered me a session at Percy & Reed with Ellenora Dean (who now runs her own salon, Fry + Dean), to create this beautiful, glossy, all-over denim tone. Out of all the colours I've dyed my hair, this was the one that I felt suited me most. I felt so strongly about this look that I came back to Ellenora again and again as a paying customer, even though I'd have to save up for months to be able to afford the treatment.
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2017: Peacock hair |
Unfortunately, although the colour was beautiful, it only lasted for a few weeks due to the temporary nature of the dye. Having been in the salon chair for around six hours, it was a lot of work for such little time to enjoy the results.
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2018: Black hair |
With this colouring, my hair was virtually black. If I stood in natural lighting, you could see a slight navy-blue tinge.
I felt that this looked really natural in comparison to my previous colours, and it was easy to maintain, as the black dye stayed in my hair instead of washing out in the shower.
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2018: Denim hair (again) |
This faded to brown-black after a month, then over time returned to brown. This was the last time that I had my hair dyed (as of January 2020).
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2019: Natural hair |
I currently feel that this colour is too light for my liking, and I don't like the appearance of brassy orange tones coming through the brown (I have nothing against orange, ginger or red hair - I just don't think it suits me). Therefore, I'm planning to have my hair dyed professionally at some point this year. I'm going to go for an all-over dark brown, and I'm looking forward to feeling like my true, natural self again.
Would I ever go back to bold, bright colours? Probably not. Although it's so much fun being able to have colourful hair, it takes so much maintenance, which takes up time that I just don't have. I appreciate all the work that many talented stylists have done on my hair over the years, and I like taking the time to appreciate others' hair colours, but when it comes to my hair, I'm probably going to keep things as natural and low-maintenance as possible.
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